Friday, June 7, 2013

Arnold Friend: Connie's Dream Love

Arnold Friend represents the lies and realities of Connie's inflated vision of love. The dream boy package Friend delivers is an exact replica of Connie's dream lover boy in style, taste, and admiration but with the inconsistencies of reality. This encounter shatters Connie's teen dreams and forces her into adulthood.

The two sides of Connie: how she really is in the comfort of her own home in contrast to how she wants to be perceived outside is the main battle of the story. Connie tries to dabble in reality but is left vulnerable by her constant need for fantasy. Her thoughts on the boys she associates with, for instance, is “dissolved into a single face that was not even a face but an idea, a feeling, mixed up with the urgent insistent pounding of the music and the humid night air of July”. Even Eddie who she rides around with is never mentioned again by name, merely referred to as another sweet boy she hears about in movies and songs. The vain image Connie holds of herself is also mere fantasy inspired by the music of Bobby King. The way she is always drumming along to the music, fidgeting nervously, and constantly looking for approval is because she is afraid to face reality. Connie's life is a film and she must be the star. In consequence her idea of the dream boy is clouded and effectively warped by the sick reality of Friend.

Arnold Friend drops in as another one of Connie's fantasies. Nice car, cool clothes, tiny muscles, dreamy radio voice, music bopping in conjunction with hers and an oh so cool attitude. Friend keeps saying they've met before and while Connie has no recollection of him she cannot deny that he is familiar. Regardless of whether Friend is real or the devil himself, Connie knows him because she created him. So what is wrong with Friend if he is constructing the ideal? Friend has entered reality. The danger of misguided love is showcased in his chilling “courting” of Connie and reality of adulthood begin to seep in with his threats. The safety net breaks down as Friend sums it up: “The place where you came from ain't there anymore, and where you had in mind to go is canceled out”. The daydreams her mother lambasted her for are no longer there. Suddenly everything becomes confusing. The kitchen begins to look unfamiliar. For the first time, Connie feels as though her heart “was nothing that was hers” and realizes the fantasies she built her life around had abandoned her.

The world Connie had created for herself never existed because of the restraints of reality. Inevitably it broke down, aided by the unsavory intentions of Arnold Friend. Presenting himself as the idea of her dream lover, he twisted his way into her life, and deflated the fantasy.



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